(PRWEB) February 13, 2006 -- According to infidelity expert Ruth Houston, some men are more likely to cheat than others because of their background, past history or certain character traits. What about the man in your life? Is your Valentine the cheating kind?
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Houston, the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and founder of InfidelityAdvice.com has designed a short quiz to let you know if he’s a potential cheater.
Take Ruth Houston’s 7-question Potential Cheater’s Quiz to rate your mate and find out if your Valentine is the cheating kind.
Questions:
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Does he thrive on adventure?
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Did he have a great deal of sexual experience prior to your relationship?
3.
Does he have lots of female friends?
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Does he have male friends who are cheating on their wives or girlfriends?
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Does he have a parent who cheated?
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Did he cheat in any of his past relationships?
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Does he feel that infidelity is really no big deal?
What your answers mean:
1.
Some men enjoy all the suspense, deception and intrigue that accompany infidelity. They’ll cheat just for the “thrill of the chase.”
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Studies reveal that men who were extremely sexually active before settling down in a committed relationship are more apt to engage in sex outside that relationship. Don’t expect a leopard to change his spots.
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Close friendships with women are a common starting point for infidelity. Friends can quickly turn into lovers. The closer the friendship, the greater the odds that it will develop into an affair.
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Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. If his friends are cheating, he’ll soon be cheating too.
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Infidelity tends to run in families. Children of unfaithful parents are often programmed to follow in their footsteps, considering infidelity to be the norm.
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“Once a cheater, always a cheater.” There are exceptions, but statistically speaking, if he cheated once, he’s more apt to do it again. His history will probably repeat itself.
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If he doesn’t believe that infidelity is wrong, his behavior will reflect his beliefs.
The more ‘yes’ answers you have, the greater the likelihood that you have a possible cheater on your hands. However, Houston says “Even if you only have one ‘yes’, there’s still cause for concern. But there are precautions you can take.”
They are listed in Houston’s free tip sheet entitled “ How to Handle a Potential Cheater ” For a copy, e-mail e-mail protected from spam bots (InfidelityAdvice at gmail.com) with the words "Potential Cheater Tips” in the subject line.
What Your Answers Tell You About Him
“Since some answers carry more weight than others” says Houston, “you’ll want to further evaluate your quiz results. Then you can tell if you’re dealing with a Potential Cheater, a Common "Garden-Variety" Cheater, an Experienced Cheater, or a Hard-Core Cheater.”
If you answered yes to #1, #2, or #5 (but not all three), he’s a Potential Cheater who will probably cheat if the opportunity presents itself.
If you answered yes to #3 or #4 alone, together, or in combination with #1 or #2, he’s a Common "Garden-Variety" Cheater who will cheat if he feels he can do so without getting caught.
If you answered yes to #6 alone or in combination with #1,#2, #3, #4, or #5 you’re dealing with an Experienced Cheater who’s probably good at covering his tracks. Watch him like a hawk and familiarize yourself with the 21 major categories of infidelity signs.
If you answered yes to #7 alone ( This one’s the biggie) or in combination with any others, you’ve got a Hard-Core Cheater on your hands who’s probably already having an affair. Make sure you know how to recognize the telltale signs of infidelity – especially the subtle signs women usually overlook..
Visit www.InfidelityAdvice.com for more detailed information about the 4 types of cheaters mentioned above. Meanwhile, invest in a copy of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (Lifestyle Publications, $29.95) so you recognize the signs of infidelity if and when they appear. Also available as an e-book from Booklocker.com
Free Tip Sheet to Help You Deal with a Potential Cheater
Remember, if you’re dating a potential cheater or married to one, you need to know what to do. Ruth Houston’s free tip sheet, “How to Handle a Potential Cheater, will give you several successful strategies to use. To get a copy, e-mail e-mail protected from spam bots (InfidelityAdvice at gmail.com) with the words "Potential Cheater Tips” in the subject line.
About Ruth Houston
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the author of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs, which covers practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs women usually overlook. (Available from www.InfidelityAdvice.com , Amazon.com or 1-800-431-1579.) She is the founder of www.Infideliy Advice.com. Ruth has been quoted in the New York Times, Cosmopolitan, the New York Post, the Chicago Tribune, the Wall Street Journal, iVillage, MSN Lifestyle and many others; and has appeared as a guest on The Today Show, Good Day New York, 1010WINS, BBC, and over 200 other radio and TV talk shows worldwide.
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